Thanks guys. Here is more info. I have to do some testing too.
All 3 participants were at different locations
1) Host that set the meeting is here in Hawaii
2) 2nd participant (1 and 2 could see each other) is located in New York.
3) Me Also here in Hawaii, but actually sitting in the same building and on the same (internal) network as the server.
Me - Using AdBlockPlus on all browsers.
I plan to test this with only external connections. I am wondering if me inside the network is part of the problem somehow. Or the firewall settings (pfSense), like before when we could not get any of our domain emails to use lets encrypt because the domain could not "resolve" until i set up a DNS resolver.
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