Hello Jim,
If you look at the spool card (Settings -> general) you will see the retry intervals. ( see image below ). This can be set to eventually retry after a day ( 1,440 minutes )
As long as the bounce is not DNS or a 5xx rsp we will continue to try according to the settings on this card.
Thank you
Tony Scholz
System/Network Administrator
SmarterTools Inc.
www.smartertools.com