var ctl00_Split_LP_ctl01_grdContacts = null;
            function LoadFuncctl00_Split_LP_ctl01_grdContacts() {
                var dataSource = {"additionalJavascript":null,"checkedRows":["Abuse|FB69835B-CD36-6D71-78B6-7DF38498389D"],"dirtyKey":"0","labelText":null,"rows":[{"columns":[{"c":"checkable multiline","v":"\u003cinput type=checkbox /\u003e"},{"c":"al emphasize","v":"\u003cdiv class=\"multiline line1 shrink\"\u003edancelance\u003c/div\u003e\u003cdiv class=\"multiline line2 shrink\"\u003einfo@palmbeachcuisine.com\u003c/div\u003e\u003cdiv class=\"multiline line3 shrink\"\u003ehandleit\u003c/div\u003e\u003cdiv class=\"multiline line4 shrink nodata\"\u003eWork Phone\u003c/div\u003e\u003cdiv class=\"multiline line5 shrink nodata\"\u003eMobile Phone\u003c/div\u003e\u003cdiv class=\"multiline line6 shrink\"\u003eAccount: My Contacts\u003c/div\u003e"}],"d":false,"n":false,"rowNumber":0,"uid":"Abuse|FB69835B-CD36-6D71-78B6-7DF38498389D","urls":["/Main/frmContactView.aspx?guid=FB69835B-CD36-6D71-78B6-7DF38498389D\u0026user=Abuse\u0026mapped=true","/Main/frmContact.aspx?guid=FB69835B-CD36-6D71-78B6-7DF38498389D\u0026user=Abuse\u0026mapped=true"]}],"totalRows":1};
                ctl00_Split_LP_ctl01_grdContacts = new SuperHyperGrid('ctl00_Split_LP_ctl01_grdContacts', 1, 2, SMWeb.Services.svcSuperHyperGrid.GetData, 'ContactsView', 'Loading...', dataSource, -1, 1, 0, NavPreviewPane, -1, showContext_ctl00_Split_LP_ctl01_contextContacts, DoubleClick, DoDelete, false, 2, '\x7b0\x7d\x20selected\x20items', false, false, '8267acd5c3924bd386ed87bac81351a5', -1, '', '', false, '', [{"locked":true,"max":25,"min":25,"percent":false,"width":25},{"locked":false,"max":400,"min":100,"percent":false,"width":0}], '/Main/frmEmptyPreviewOuter.aspx?type=contacts', SMWeb.Services.svcSuperHyperGrid.MarkRead, false, false);
                dataSource = null;
                if(self.iFrameLoading)
                    self.finishLoadingFunction = function(){ctl00_Split_LP_ctl01_grdContacts.AutoSelect();};
                else if (self.isCallback)
                    ctl00_Split_LP_ctl01_grdContacts.AutoSelect();
                else
                    window.setTimeout(function(){ctl00_Split_LP_ctl01_grdContacts.AutoSelect();},50);
                self.isCallback = true;
            }
$(LoadFuncctl00_Split_LP_ctl01_grdContacts);

pretty bad formatting after the paste lol.. 

var dataSource = {     //some object of dynamically defined parameters

"checkedRows":["Abuse|FB84325B-CD56-6D61-78B6-7DF38423384D"]     //checked rows must be how the function identifys which user to grab contacts from, as abuse (dont ask) is the name of the user im logged in as.. plus the key (i changed the numbers/letters after pasting)

 

new SuperHyperGrid(    //some function to accept inputs and display a formatted div, which I do not need for my purposes

 

So it is clear that there is a way to identify the user that is logged on, and then display that user's contact list.. I just really want to be able to do this on the chat window... should this be a support ticket? I'd pay for the solution if necessary