SO on the main server (not the inbound email server) .. I checked the delivery log...
I do not find
75769285 or ab7c286efd66a363aa00797bfb)'========================================================
Here is what is weird..... From the MAIN.MAILSERVER.COM
I am pretty sure.. "Session=42855208 " is the session with the email that I am looking for....
**BEFORE ** anyone jumps to conclusion {that the server is not set up correctly} please look at SESSION =53865602]where everything completed correctly.
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16:52:07.207 [192.168.1.22][42855208] Connection initiated
16:52:07.207 [192.168.1.22][42855208] rsp: 220 main.mailserver.com
16:52:07.208 [192.168.1.22][42855208] connected at 9/24/2026 4:52:07 PM
16:52:07.228 [192.168.1.22][42855208] Country code: Unknown
16:52:07.228 [192.168.1.22][42855208] IP in whitelist
16:52:07.237 [192.168.1.22][42855208] rsp: 250-
main.mailserver.com Hello [192.168.1.22]250-SIZE 69905066250-AUTH PLAIN LOGIN CRAM-MD5250-STARTTLS250-8BITMIME250-SMTPUTF8250-DSN250 OK
16:52:07.268 [192.168.1.22][42855208] cmd: STARTTLS
16:52:07.268 [192.168.1.22][42855208] rsp: 220 Start TLS negotiation
16:52:07.387 [192.168.1.22][42855208] rsp: 250-mail.mainserver.com Hello [192.168.1.22]250-SIZE 69905066250-AUTH PLAIN LOGIN CRAM-MD5250-8BITMIME250-SMTPUTF8250-DSN250 OK
16:52:07.423 [192.168.1.22][42855208] cmd: MAIL FROM:<client
j@mydomain.com> BODY=8BITMIME RET=HDRS ENVID=d666d735-a5e1-4236-9188-5f27d638a2f4 SIZE=3980
16:52:07.423 [192.168.1.22][42855208] senderEmail(1):client
j@mydomain.com16:52:07.423 [192.168.1.22][42855208] rsp: 550 Authentication is required for relay
16:52:07.423 [192.168.1.22][42855208] disconnected at 9/24/2026 4:52:07 PM
Now, immediatily the next session starts
16:52:22.302 [192.168.1.22][53865602] Connection initiated
16:52:22.302 [192.168.1.22][53865602] rsp: 220 mail.mainmail.server.com
16:52:22.303 [192.168.1.22][53865602] connected at 9/24/2026 4:52:22 PM
16:52:22.319 [192.168.1.22][53865602] Country code: Unknown
16:52:22.319 [192.168.1.22][53865602] IP in whitelist
16:52:22.333 [192.168.1.22][53865602] cmd: EHLO mx1.ebt.net
16:52:22.333 [192.168.1.22][53865602] rsp:
250--mail.mainserver.com Hello [192.168.1.22]250-SIZE 69905066250-AUTH PLAIN LOGIN CRAM-MD5250-STARTTLS250-8BITMIME250-SMTPUTF8250-DSN250 OK
16:52:22.364 [192.168.1.22][53865602] cmd: STARTTLS
16:52:22.364 [192.168.1.22][53865602] rsp: 220 Start TLS negotiation
16:52:22.440 [192.168.1.22][53865602] rsp: 250-mail.availx.com Hello [192.168.1.22]250-SIZE 69905066250-AUTH PLAIN LOGIN CRAM-MD5250-8BITMIME250-SMTPUTF8250-DSN250 OK
16:52:22.452 [192.168.1.22][53865602] cmd: MAIL FROM:<A7CK9DEolTv2FJRhcsScpoQ==_1142121742813_ijvFcNVGEfC27gJCpkIu2g==@in.constantcontact.com> BODY=8BITMIME RET=HDRS ENVID=799eb734-7114-44ef-af74-dd1db033aa2b SIZE=39840
16:52:22.452 [192.168.1.22][53865602] senderEmail(1): A7CK9DEolTv2FJRhcsScpoQ==_1142121742813_ijvFcNVGEfC27gJCpkIu2g==@in.constantcontact.com
16:52:22.452 [192.168.1.22][53865602] rsp: 250 OK <A7CK9DEolTv2FJRhcsScpoQ==_1142121742813_ijvFcNVGEfC27gJCpkIu2g==@in.constantcontact.com> Sender ok
16:52:22.452 [192.168.1.22][53865602] Sender accepted. Weight: 0. Block threshold: 30.
16:52:22.483 [192.168.1.22][53865602] cmd: RCPT TO:<another
@client.com> NOTIFY=FAILURE
16:52:22.484 [192.168.1.22][53865602] rsp: 250 OK <another
@client.com> Recipient ok
16:52:22.513 [192.168.1.22][53865602] cmd: DATA
16:52:22.514 [192.168.1.22][53865602] Performing PTR host name lookup for 192.168.1.22
16:52:22.530 [192.168.1.22][53865602] PTR host name for 192.168.1.22 resolved as UnknownHost
16:52:22.530 [192.168.1.22][53865602] rsp: 354 Start mail input; end with <CRLF>.<CRLF>
16:52:22.551 [192.168.1.22][53865602] Parsed spamchecks from gateway, Null Sender=0,passed, _DMARC=0,passed, _DKIM=-2,Pass, _ARC=none, _customrules=, declude=-47
16:52:22.736 [192.168.1.22][53865602] DMARC Results: passed, Reason: Unknown, Reject? False
16:52:22.736 [192.168.1.22][53865602] rsp: 250 OK
16:52:22.737 [192.168.1.22][53865602] Received message size: 39882 bytes
16:52:22.738 [192.168.1.22][53865602] Successfully wrote to the HDR file. (L:/Smail/Spools/SubSpool2/53161707.hdr)
16:52:22.748 [192.168.1.22][53865602] cmd: QUIT
16:52:22.748 [192.168.1.22][53865602] rsp: 221 OK
16:52:22.748 [192.168.1.22][53865602] disconnected at 9/24/2026 4:52:22 PM
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soooo not sure why one would say "relay not allowed"
To clarify, the user / domain received hundreds of emails per day... and is working fine