We have not seen any issues with the Gmail client using ActiveSync on Android. We have a dozen test devices and haven't seen an issue and haven't had any other reports of it.
The Gmail client on iOS does not allow you to specify a server other than Office365. On iOS, users should use the native iOS mail app which supports ActiveSync or any of the other apps with ActiveSync like Outlook for Mobile etc.
Tim Uzzanti
CEO
SmarterTools Inc.
(877) 357-6278
www.smartertools.com