Hello, Is your "outside" production mail server only send mail for your domain or also receives mail for the domains ?
Are the mails that you don't receive on smartermail adressed to the same domain as the sender?
Your description looks a bit like a split-domain configuration where you have different mail servers handling mails for the same domain.
Maybe you should check the smtp out log on the sending server to check if it actually tries to send it to the correct place.
Sébastien Riccio
System & Network Admin
https://swisscenter.com