It looks like we are in the same boat. My logs are filled with :
cmd: EHLO server121.appriver.com
rsp: 250-shastaemail.com Hello [8.31.233.133]250-SIZE 52428800250-AUTH LOGIN CRAM-MD5250-STARTTLS250-8BITMIME250 OK
cmd: STARTTLS
rsp: 220 Start TLS negotiation
rsp: 554 Security failure
Exception negotiating TLS session: System.NullReferenceException: Object reference not set to an instance of an object.
disconnected at 5/9/2018 3:40:58 PM
We are using best practices and score an A at SSL Labs server test. Appriver is the only provider I am aware of that we are having issues with. A test E-mail that was CCed to a G-mail account manged to get delivered, and it said the connection was:
(version=TLS1_2 cipher=ECDHE-RSA-AES128-GCM-SHA256 bits=128/128)
John C. Reid / Technology Director
John@prime42.net / (530) 691-0042
1300 West Street, Suite 206, Redding, CA 96001