You shouldn't need to restart MailService.exe, you can kill MailService_SubProcess.exe if you want to "reset" Cyren, MailService will automatically boot it back up after ~30 seconds or so and if it needs to perform a scan.
There should also be a SubProcessConfig.xml near your mailConfig.xml file, in "C:\Program Files (x86)\SmarterTools\SmarterMail\Service\"
In that file, you can set logging to "True" and you'll get logging describing what Cyren is doing, this log is not like other logs, it goes into that same folder under the name of "SP_Log.txt".
Matt Petty
Senior Software Developer
SmarterTools Inc.
www.smartertools.com