Merle,
I'm not entirely sure I understand what you're doing...are you setting the action for your event to send an email to more than one address -- the primary domain address as well as the alias.com address? Have you tried using a standard alias on the primary domain that includes the addresses you want to send to? E.g., Have the event action send an email to SMS_Text@primarydomain.com, which has both the user@primarydomain.com and user@alias.com addresses as part of it?
Derek Curtis
COO
SmarterTools Inc.
www.smartertools.com