It does that anyway if you don't "enforce it" -- SM always tries to send through secured channels first.
The behavior described defeats the purpose of "strict validation" --
The 602 needs to be better worded to say there is an issue with the SSL/TLS certificate presented by the destination server. Users have no damn clue what Error 602 is when it bounces back to their inbox and just blame the current provider for the problems instead of pushing the receiving party to fix their server.
We tried running with it on for a month and it cost us customers because they don't understand the error and we don't have the time and resources to fix everyone else's TLS implementation...
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