New infos:
Sending a mail from Webmail (Impersonate User -> New ....) was delivered with this log:
[2025.02.12] 19:22:52.197 [12047003] Delivery started for smartermail1@mydomain.de at 19:22:52
[2025.02.12] 19:22:55.235 [12047003] Added to SpamCheckQueue (1 queued; 0/30 processing)
[2025.02.12] 19:22:55.235 [12047003] [SpamCheckQueue] Begin Processing.
[2025.02.12] 19:22:55.235 [12047003] Blocked Sender Checks started.
[2025.02.12] 19:22:55.283 [12047003] Spam Checks started.
[2025.02.12] 19:22:55.283 [12047003] Spam Checks skipped: User authenticated
[2025.02.12] 19:22:55.283 [12047003] Spam Checks completed.
[2025.02.12] 19:22:55.283 [12047003] Removed from SpamCheckQueue (0 queued or processing)
Sending from the same account from Outlook No delivering with this log:
[2025.02.12] 19:29:09.400 [12047001] Added to RemoteDeliveryQueue (1 queued; 0/50 processing)
[2025.02.12] 19:29:09.400 [12047001] [RemoteDeliveryQueue] Begin Processing.
[2025.02.12] 19:29:09.400 [12047001] Sending remote mail from smartermail1@mydomain.de
[2025.02.12] 19:29:09.401 [12047001] MXRecord count: '2' for domain 'mydomain.de'
[2025.02.12] 19:29:09.401 [12047001] Attempting MXRecord Host Name: 'mx00.ionos.de', preference '10', Ip Count: '1'
[2025.02.12] 19:29:09.401 [12047001] Attempting to send to MXRecord 'mx00.ionos.de' ip: '212.227.15.41'
[2025.02.12] 19:29:09.401 [12047001] Sending remote mail to: info@mydomain.de
[2025.02.12] 19:29:09.401 [12047001] Initiating connection to 212.227.15.41
[2025.02.12] 19:29:09.401 [12047001] Connecting to 212.227.15.41:25 (Id: 1)
[2025.02.12] 19:29:09.420 [12047001] Connection to 212.227.15.41:25 from 192.168.1.202:49880 succeeded (Id: 1)
[2025.02.12] 19:29:09.451 [12047001] RSP: 554-kundenserver.de (mxeue001) Nemesis ESMTP Service not available
[2025.02.12] 19:29:09.452 [12047001] RSP: 554-No SMTP service
[2025.02.12] 19:29:09.452 [12047001] RSP: 554-Invalid DNS PTR resource record
[2025.02.12] 19:29:09.452 [12047001] RSP: 554 For explanation visit https://postmaster.1und1.de/en/case?c=r0602&i=ip&v=88..103.215&r=1MQwfn-1u3xas1wYx-00SWhS
[2025.02.12] 19:29:09.452 [12047001] CMD: QUIT
[2025.02.12] 19:29:14.463 [12047001] Attempt to ip, '212.227.15.41' success: 'False'
[2025.02.12] 19:29:14.463 [12047001] Attempting MXRecord Host Name: 'mx01.ionos.de', preference '10', Ip Count: '1'
[2025.02.12] 19:29:14.463 [12047001] Attempting to send to MXRecord 'mx01.ionos.de' ip: '217.72.192.67'
[2025.02.12] 19:29:14.463 [12047001] Sending remote mail to: info@mydomain.de
[2025.02.12] 19:29:14.463 [12047001] Initiating connection to 217.72.192.67
[2025.02.12] 19:29:14.463 [12047001] Connecting to 217.72.192.67:25 (Id: 2)
[2025.02.12] 19:29:14.485 [12047001] Connection to 217.72.192.67:25 from 192.168.1.202:49881 succeeded (Id: 2)
[2025.02.12] 19:29:14.525 [12047001] RSP: 554-kundenserver.de (mxeue101) Nemesis ESMTP Service not available
[2025.02.12] 19:29:14.525 [12047001] RSP: 554-No SMTP service
[2025.02.12] 19:29:14.525 [12047001] RSP: 554-Invalid DNS PTR resource record
[2025.02.12] 19:29:14.525 [12047001] RSP: 554 For explanation visit https://postmaster.1und1.de/en/case?c=r0602&i=ip&v=88..103.215&r=1MQONL-1u4VIJ2Dg1-00WMpT
[2025.02.12] 19:29:14.525 [12047001] CMD: QUIT
[2025.02.12] 19:29:19.561 [12047001] Attempt to ip, '217.72.192.67' success: 'False'
[2025.02.12] 19:29:19.561 [12047001] Removed from RemoteDeliveryQueue (0 queued or processing)
[2025.02.12] 19:29:52.011 [12047005] Delivery started for smartermail1@mydomain.de at 19:29:52
[2025.02.12] 19:29:55.057 [12047005] Added to SpamCheckQueue (1 queued; 0/30 processing)
[2025.02.12] 19:29:55.057 [12047005] [SpamCheckQueue] Begin Processing.
[2025.02.12] 19:29:55.058 [12047005] Blocked Sender Checks started.
[2025.02.12] 19:29:55.129 [12047005] Spam Checks started.
[2025.02.12] 19:29:55.129 [12047005] Spam Checks skipped: User authenticated
[2025.02.12] 19:29:55.129 [12047005] Spam Checks completed.
[2025.02.12] 19:29:55.129 [12047005] Removed from SpamCheckQueue (0 queued or processing)
Sending from Outlook over the same account to an email-address from a different domain, works too.
[2025.02.12] 19:33:24.923 [12047006] Delivery started for smartermail1@mydomain.de at 19:33:24
[2025.02.12] 19:33:27.968 [12047006] Added to SpamCheckQueue (1 queued; 0/30 processing)
[2025.02.12] 19:33:27.968 [12047006] [SpamCheckQueue] Begin Processing.
[2025.02.12] 19:33:27.969 [12047006] Blocked Sender Checks started.
[2025.02.12] 19:33:28.035 [12047006] Spam Checks started.
[2025.02.12] 19:33:28.035 [12047006] Spam Checks skipped: User authenticated
[2025.02.12] 19:33:28.035 [12047006] Spam Checks completed.
[2025.02.12] 19:33:28.035 [12047006] Removed from SpamCheckQueue (0 queued or processing)
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.045 [12047006] Added to RemoteDeliveryQueue (1 queued; 0/50 processing)
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.045 [12047006] [RemoteDeliveryQueue] Begin Processing.
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.046 [12047006] Sending remote mail from smartermail1@mydomain.de
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.073 [12047006] MXRecord count: '1' for domain 'otherdomain.de'
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.095 [12047006] Attempting MXRecord Host Name: 'mailgate.otherdomain.de', preference '5', Ip Count: '1'
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.095 [12047006] Attempting to send to MXRecord 'mailgate.otherdomain.de' ip: '.100.231.203'
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.095 [12047006] Sending remote mail to: hk@otherdomain.de
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.095 [12047006] Initiating connection to 82.100.231.203
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.095 [12047006] Connecting to .100.231.203:25 (Id: 1)
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.124 [12047006] Connection to .100.231.203:25 from 192.168.1.202:49892 succeeded (Id: 1)
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.199 [12047006] RSP: 220 mailgate.otherdomain.de ESMTP Smtpd; Wed, 12 Feb 2025 19:33:34 +0100
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.200 [12047006] CMD: EHLO File-Server2025
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.246 [12047006] RSP: 250-mailgate.otherdomain.de Hello [88.133.103.215], pleased to meet you
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.246 [12047006] RSP: 250-ENHANCEDSTATUSCODES
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.246 [12047006] RSP: 250-PIPELINING
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.246 [12047006] RSP: 250-8BITMIME
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.246 [12047006] RSP: 250-SIZE 52428800
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.246 [12047006] RSP: 250-DSN
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.246 [12047006] RSP: 250-AUTH LOGIN PLAIN
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.246 [12047006] RSP: 250-STARTTLS
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.246 [12047006] RSP: 250-DELIVERBY
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.246 [12047006] RSP: 250 HELP
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.247 [12047006] CMD: STARTTLS
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.283 [12047006] RSP: 220 2.0.0 Ready to start TLS
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.359 [12047006] CMD: EHLO File-Server2025
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.481 [12047006] RSP: 250-mailgate.otherdomain.de Hello [88.133.103.215], pleased to meet you
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.481 [12047006] RSP: 250-ENHANCEDSTATUSCODES
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.481 [12047006] RSP: 250-PIPELINING
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.481 [12047006] RSP: 250-8BITMIME
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.481 [12047006] RSP: 250-SIZE 52428800
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.481 [12047006] RSP: 250-DSN
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.482 [12047006] RSP: 250-AUTH LOGIN PLAIN
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.482 [12047006] RSP: 250-DELIVERBY
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.482 [12047006] RSP: 250 HELP
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.487 [12047006] CMD: MAIL FROM:<smartermail1@mydomain.de> SIZE=2470
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.553 [12047006] RSP: 250 2.1.0 <smartermail1@mydomain.de>... Sender ok
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.553 [12047006] CMD: RCPT TO:<hk@otherdomain.de> NOTIFY=FAILURE
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.584 [12047006] RSP: 250 2.1.5 <hk@otherdomain.de>... Recipient ok
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.584 [12047006] CMD: DATA
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.616 [12047006] RSP: 354 Enter mail, end with "." on a line by itself
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.787 [12047006] RSP: 250 2.0.0 51CIXYJK016330-51CIXYJM016330 Message accepted for delivery
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.787 [12047006] CMD: QUIT
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.823 [12047006] RSP: 221 2.0.0 mailgate.otherdomain.de closing connection
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.823 [12047006] Attempt to ip, '82.100.231.203' success: 'True'
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.824 [12047006] Process delivery status notification step from recipient success. Recipient: [hk@otherdomain.de], Notify: [], LastError: [], RanDomainFilter: [False], RanGlobalFilter: False
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.824 [12047006] Delivery for smartermail1@mydomain.de to hk@otherdomain.de has completed (Delivered)
[2025.02.12] 19:33:34.824 [12047006] Removed from RemoteDeliveryQueue (0 queued or processing)
[2025.02.12] 19:33:37.085 [12047006] Removing Spool message: Killed: False, Failed: False, Finished: True
[2025.02.12] 19:33:37.085 [12047006] Delivery finished for smartermail1@mydomain.de at 19:33:37 [id:12047006]
But this looks, as if the mail was directly sent from Smartermail, without using my provider as relay...
-> confused