Hey Douglas,
Thanks for reaching out to the community. Have you looked at the Greylist Weight Threshold setting?
With this, it will only greylist senders who are over a certain weight.
This is located in Settings->Antispam
To use this you can just turn on your spamchecks for inbound SMTP checking in the Spam Checks section.
Please let me know if this helps at all.
Thank you,
Zach Sylvester
Software Developer
SmarterTools Inc.
www.smartertools.com