Yes, I'm positive it is the smartermail rejecting it. The log shows it dropping the connection and generating the bounceback mesage with the 552 error. I sent the message out of OWA on an Exchange server with the password attached, that sends it to the SmarterMail smarthost gateway, which should then forward it on to my mailbox on my SmarterMail enterprise server. But it doesn't. It stops as soon as it hits the Smartermail smarthost gateway server. The smarthost never attempts to contact the destination server.
The SMTP log shows the full transaction. The delivery log has almost no information about it. Here they are from the SMTP and DELIVERY log sections, names and ip's changed...
[2020.01.29] 03:37:14.800 [123.123.123.123][62984132] rsp: 220 pf1.thisismydomain.com
[2020.01.29] 03:37:14.800 [123.123.123.123][62984132] connected at 1/29/2020 3:37:14 AM
[2020.01.29] 03:37:14.800 [123.123.123.123][62984132] Country code: US
[2020.01.29] 03:37:14.800 [123.123.123.123][62984132] IP in whitelist
[2020.01.29] 03:37:14.800 [123.123.123.123][62984132] IP in authentication bypass
[2020.01.29] 03:37:14.800 [123.123.123.123][62984132] cmd: EHLO mail.thisismydomain.com
[2020.01.29] 03:37:14.816 [123.123.123.123][62984132] rsp: 250-pf1.thisismydomain.com Hello [123.123.123.123]250-SIZE250-AUTH LOGIN CRAM-MD5250-8BITMIME250-DSN250 OK
[2020.01.29] 03:37:14.816 [123.123.123.123][62984132] cmd: MAIL FROM:<Administrator@thisismydomain.com> SIZE=3381150
[2020.01.29] 03:37:14.816 [123.123.123.123][62984132] senderEmail(1): Administrator@thisismydomain.com parsed using: <Administrator@thisismydomain.com>
[2020.01.29] 03:37:14.816 [123.123.123.123][62984132] rsp: 250 OK <Administrator@thisismydomain.com> Sender ok
[2020.01.29] 03:37:14.816 [123.123.123.123][62984132] Sender accepted. Weight: 0.
[2020.01.29] 03:37:14.816 [123.123.123.123][62984132] cmd: RCPT TO:<eddie@thedestination.com>
[2020.01.29] 03:37:14.831 [123.123.123.123][62984132] rsp: 250 OK <eddie@thedestination.com> Recipient ok
[2020.01.29] 03:37:14.878 [123.123.123.123][62984132] cmd: DATA
[2020.01.29] 03:37:14.878 [123.123.123.123][62984132] Performing PTR host name lookup for 123.123.123.123
[2020.01.29] 03:37:14.956 [123.123.123.123][62984132] PTR host name for 123.123.123.123 resolved as 123-123-123-123.static.myisp.net
[2020.01.29] 03:37:14.956 [123.123.123.123][62984132] rsp: 354 Start mail input; end with <CRLF>.<CRLF>
[2020.01.29] 03:37:14.956 [123.123.123.123][62984132] senderEmail(2): administrator@thisismydomain.com parsed using: Administrator <Administrator@thisismydomain.com>
[2020.01.29] 03:37:15.675 [73356] Delivery started for Administrator@thisismydomain.com (via bypass) at 3:37:15 AM
[2020.01.29] 03:39:21.881 [73356] Removing Spool message: Killed: False, Failed: True, Finished: False
[2020.01.29] 03:39:21.881 [73356] Delivery finished for Administrator@thisismydomain.com at 3:39:21 AM [id:58673356]