Thanks for your answers.
I have changed settings to allow auto responders for all spam scores for the entire domain.
I checked the delivery log and there is not sent any mail.
When I send from our own domain on the same server I can see the reply in the log.
When I check the header of the received mail it shows correct From address and also correct Return-Path.
Logfile:
[2019.07.28] 13:50:58 [37676] Delivery started for lennart@from-gmail.com at 13:50:58
[2019.07.28] 13:51:28 [37676] Added to SpamCheckQueue (0 queued; 1/30 processing)
[2019.07.28] 13:51:29 [37676] Spam check results: [_REVERSEDNSLOOKUP: Passed], [_SPF: SoftFail], [_DK: None], [_DKIM: Pass], [_CUSTOMRULES: ], [ABUSEAT: passed], [HOSTKARMA - BLACKLIST: passed], [HOSTKARMA - BROWNLIST: passed], [ORIGIN-CHINA: passed], [ORIGIN-ROMANIA: passed], [ORIGIN-RUSSIA: passed], [SPAMCOP: passed], [SPAMHAUS - XBL: passed], [SPAMHAUS ZEN: passed], [UCE1: passed]
[2019.07.28] 13:51:29 [37676] Removed from SpamCheckQueue (0 queued or processing)
[2019.07.28] 13:51:31 [37676] Added to LocalDeliveryQueue (0 queued; 1/50 processing)
[2019.07.28] 13:51:31 [37676] Starting local delivery to nelly@to-domain.se
[2019.07.28] 13:51:31 [37676] Delivery for lennart@from-gmail.com to nelly@to-domain.se has completed (Delivered) Filter: None
[2019.07.28] 13:51:31 [37676] End delivery to nelly@to-domain.se
[2019.07.28] 13:51:31 [37676] Removed from LocalDeliveryQueue (0 queued or processing)
[2019.07.28] 13:51:31 [37676] Delivery finished for lennart@from-gmail.com at 13:51:31 [id:62137676]
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