Zero 'information' on any of the SM logs, when it first crashed....
 
To be clear.   I rebooted 3 times in 5 hours.  Stopped SM 6 or 7 times in same period.
Out of all of those instances, there was no major data written / reported in SM.
 
I did look in the Window logs the first time it crashed... nothing was there either.
But... Duh... thanks for prompting me to look at the  Windows log again..  { I didn't think to look there again after the first reboot/crash  because the box is relative new (less than 2yrs old}.  
 
So on the second reboot (11.15 am CST), in the Windows Log:
In the second 'reboot',  I saw "The IO operation at logical block address  ' =Event 153
Now, having been down this road before... one might  **think** that this is a hardware issue......  
  not necessarily  - this has to do with Windows vs. X   = Where X can be Windows or any application running under it.  Could be related to BIOS / new updates from Windows or any application...  can be caused by any number of things.
 
All of that means that Windows isn't writing out from a buffer.. either because it can't or because the application  ( X ) has delayed.
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What that means in this instance.. I don't know.   The errors existed for  about 2.5 minutes during one of  the memory crawl upwards, but not in all three times  that I rebooted or in all cases where I just stopped / restarted the SM service.
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Outside of that.. none of the other restarts or reboots really  yielded anything.   
One other thing of note:  During these memory crawls...   SM reports / dashboard would should show that it was using 12% memory (not sure what really represents) -  and reports would show  450 MB or memory,   Meanwhile Task Manager would show 1,314 MB being used, 
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Event 153 - Is Disk related.... so I will monitor for next couple of days and run a : ‘sfc /scannow’.
when we rotate the box out
 
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Have to conclude... that although SM may have had a part in the server crashing.. due to eating memory, the root cause probably lies else where......
Although it would still be good to know - if there is memory "recipe"  or calculation somewhere.