Is there a way to get SMTP emails sent through SmarterMail to show up in the Sent mail folder?

 

We are using Smartermail as an SMTP relay. There is a mailbox for the sending email address. But the messages do not show up in the Sent folder even though "Enable sent items folder" is set to true. Sent email only show up if they are created and sent from the smartermail email client interface. Bounced email shows up in the inbox though.

 

Can possibly add the sending email address to the "to" email list on each message so it shows up in the sent folder? But would they show up there before they are even sent to the email client we really want them to go to?

i.e. say we are sending an email to AOL and it is greylisted and does several retries over a couple hours, would the email end up in the sent mail box folder right away if we added the "from" address to the "to" address list? Or would it wait till it succeeded or failed to the AOL address?

 

This is C# using the "System.Net.Mail" objects sending to the smartermail server for processing.